FAQ About Feeling Like a Local in Italy

Yes, Italy has its own customs and etiquette that are worth being aware of as a visitor. Here are some key customs and etiquette tips to keep in mind:

• Greetings: Italians often greet each other with a handshake, accompanied by direct eye contact and a smile. In more informal settings, close friends may greet each other with a hug and a kiss on each cheek.
• Dressing: Italians generally dress well and take pride in their appearance. When visiting churches or religious sites, it's important to dress modestly and cover your shoulders and knees. In upscale restaurants or events, smart-casual attire is appreciated.
• Table Manners: Italians have a strong food culture, and table manners are important. Avoid resting your elbows on the table, and keep your hands visible above the table during meals. It's customary to wait for everyone to be served before starting to eat and to keep your pace of eating in line with others.
• Gesticulating: Italians are known for their expressive hand gestures while speaking. While it may seem exaggerated, it's a common part of communication in Italy. Feel free to observe and, if comfortable, use some gestures to express yourself.
• Tipping: In Italy, a service charge (coperto) is often included in the bill at restaurants. If you receive exceptional service, it's customary to leave a small additional tip, rounding up the total. Similarly, in bars and cafes, it's common to leave a small coin as a tip.
• Public Behavior: Italians value politeness and expect visitors to respect public spaces. Avoid littering, especially in historical or natural areas. Keep noise levels down in residential areas, particularly during siesta hours (early afternoon) and late at night.
• Queuing: Italians may not strictly adhere to queuing etiquette, especially in crowded areas or public transportation. Be prepared for a more relaxed queuing system and maintain a polite demeanor while waiting.
• Learning Basic Italian Phrases: While not mandatory, learning a few basic Italian phrases can go a long way in showing respect and making connections with locals. Simple greetings, "please" (per favore), "thank you" (grazie), and "excuse me" (scusi) are always appreciated.
• Respecting Cultural Sites: When visiting historical or religious sites, follow the rules and guidelines provided. Avoid touching artworks or artifacts unless explicitly allowed. Keep noise to a minimum and be mindful of others who are there for reflection or prayer.
• Adapting to Local Schedules: Italians often have a different approach to time and schedules. Meal times, especially lunch, can be longer, and some shops may close for an afternoon break (siesta). Embrace the relaxed pace and adapt your schedule accordingly.