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6. What if I accidentally refer to you as “she/her”? My Transition from Ghoul to Boi
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6. What if I accidentally refer to you as “she/her”?

If you slip up and say ‘she’ when you mean ‘he’ (or ‘they’), you don’t need to apologize profusely, just follow the mistake with the right term and continue what you were saying. I understand that over the last 30(ish) years you’ve been accustomed to using feminine language when referring to me and that mistakes happen. As long as you are considerate and do your best to avoid misgendering me, I will be patient with you.

Reference Links:

Tips for Trans Allies

Transgender Issues: How to Respect a Trans Person

A short video showing an example of intentional misgendering (slightly humorous in delivery)